Elementary My Dear Watson!

Though I am still quite young in the eyes of many I find it disconcerting that my generation is so lacking in the proper skills of communication and conflict resolution. Now I myself am far from being the model citizen in this regard so it's saying a lot that I am finding a discrepancy here. More and more I am finding myself faced with "school yard drama", adult situations being handled with elementary tactics. I was not aware that at my age (and thus the age of my peers) the silent treatment was still an option when faced with infuriating of uncomfortable situations. Am I wrong in assuming that as adults, issues should be faced and resolved not ignored? It is thoroughly annoying when I hit a brick wall when trying to confront a serious situation. If you're not ready to face your problems or the problems others have with you at least be adult enough to admit you aren't ready. Not that hard, I promise. And in contrast, what is the deal with feeling the need to lie and act out to get attention? If someone is truly a friend or significant other I guarantee you do not need to exaggerate in any way, shape, or form to keep their attention. We are not 3 year olds, we have words therefore we need to use them and use them properly. We also need to be responsible for our actions. It is not the government keeping you from getting a job, nor is it "daddy issues" causing you to sleep around (oof! not going there)! Also, I am very much aware that people have varying opinions and views (as you should be at this point in your life). All people don't hold the same morals, doctrines, or understanding of satisfactory hygiene but it was my belief that we were past the age of being catty about it. There is no need to humiliate another person to make yourself look or feel better. If it's such an indiscretion please handle the situation like the adult you are suppose to be. Pull the person to the side and be respectful with your verbiage...move on. Stop making it a big deal and stop making it public information. I swear that adages of "you'll understand when you're older." are simply a farce to keep young minds at bay, and really getting older just means dealing with the same ridiculous immature mindset in bigger bodies. Annoyed!