So it seems I have been coming across a whole lot of negativity among the mommy's in my life. I am here to say to all the mother's new and old YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! (feel free to come back to this blog daily if you need to because we all DESERVE to hear it everyday and most of us do not). Don't let any one (especially not the fathers) lead you to believe any differently. Even if you went from a size 3 to a size 10 don't fret. Either you will work hard and get back to that size 3 over time (even though every mother knows, time is not something you have a whole lot of) or you will learn to love yourself for who you have become. Please ignore all ignorant comments such as "You'll look so hot once you start exercising" or "I would love for you to be as fit as me." Especially if these are coming from a male (and God forbid it be coming from the father!) you tell that person to pop out a take care of a baby and then to get back with you on that note. It annoys me that women are being made to feel like they are inadequate after they've performed by far the most amazing miracle. Mother's should be more worried about their kids than their appearance. Be a mother, not a model and be happy about that!
*Disclaimer: This is not to say be lazy and let yourself go because you had a kid or 20! Being a good parent requires one to be healthy. I'm just saying don't starve your self to please some man who probably doesn't deserve you any way!
